The Power of Your Circle: Surrounding Yourself With Positivity for a Better Life and Future
In life and business, few things have more impact than the people you choose to surround yourself with. Whether you’re building a company, raising a family, chasing a goal, or simply trying to be a better version of yourself, your circle matters.
I’ve learned—sometimes the hard way—that negativity is contagious. So is positivity. The difference is that one drains you and the other fills your tank.
Energy In, Energy Out
You can have all the talent, drive, and vision in the world—but if you’re constantly pouring yourself out into relationships that don’t pour back, you’ll burn out. Period.
The people around you either reinforce your momentum or resist it. They’ll either lift your head when you’re discouraged or remind you of every reason to stay stuck. That’s not to say you should cut people out of your life the moment they hit a rough patch. We all face hard seasons. But over time, you start to notice who is helping you move forward and who keeps dragging you back into the past.
Future-Focused Friendship
Some of the most impactful relationships in my life are the ones where we dream big together, hold each other accountable, and celebrate progress. These aren’t fair-weather friendships. These are people who show up—in life, in business, and in faith.
They remind me that mindset isn’t just a personal discipline; it’s a communal one. When I’m around forward-thinking, faith-filled, problem-solving people, I’m better. I think clearer. I lead stronger. I show up differently for my family, my team, and my community.
Curate Your Inputs
We talk a lot about what we feed our bodies, but not nearly enough about what we feed our minds. Podcasts, books, social media, conversations—they all influence our internal narrative. I’ve made it a habit to be intentional about what I consume and who I give access to my headspace.
Want to build something meaningful? Want to be the type of person your family and team can count on? Then pay close attention to your inputs.
You don’t need a hundred people in your corner—you need a few solid ones who believe in your potential, challenge you to grow, and love you enough to tell you the truth when you’re off course.
Final Thought: Choose Your Circle, Choose Your Trajectory
At the end of the day, our environments shape us more than we realize. Who you allow close will influence not just how you feel—but where you’re headed.
So, take inventory. Make the tough calls if you need to. And then lean in—deeply and intentionally—to the relationships that push you toward the man or woman you’re called to be.
Surround yourself with people who remind you that the best is still ahead.
